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What’s worse?

by Sarah Gould

monkey.jpgWhat is worse than seeing your best friend cry and not be able to do anything more than hold her and talk?

Nothing.

Absolutely nothing.
Absolutely nothing is worse to me than not being able to take my best friend’s pain away.

When I see her struggling, when I see her pain, when I see her tears and can’t make her heart stop hurting, my own heart breaks. MamaDee is having a hard time with recognizing what a wonderful mother she is to her beautiful child. Her physician’s office is not giving her options and frankly, in my opinion, they’re being ignorant about decisions that could be made.

I’m not a mama, I know I don’t fully understand the pain that she’s dealing with, but all I want to do is take it away and make sure she knows that she is a beautiful, strong, capable mama. She is doing everything she can and is proving to be an incredibly resilient mother. She is one of my heroes and I’m incredibly blessed to have her in my life.

MamaDee, if you’re reading this know that I love you more than my words can express.

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Posted in Emotions, Personal on September 18th, 2007

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3 Responses to “What’s worse?”

  1. Terra Says:
    September 18th, 2007 at 2:19 pm

    it’s really tough, trying to know that you’re a good mom. it’s a struggle i face everyday and depression issues seriously make it worse.

  2. Sarah Gould Says:
    September 18th, 2007 at 4:01 pm

    Thanks for the comment Terra. You’re a wonderful mama, too. I miss LOLing with you. Maybe tonight!

  3. Oh Unsober One Says:
    September 18th, 2007 at 4:40 pm

    ahh…now I’m all teary. :(
    There is nothing harder that being a mommy and not being able to fix everything. I’m sure that MamaDee is doing her very best and doing a great job! I think any mother goes thru the same kind of feeling when life isn’t a perfect little picture.
    (((HUGS))) to MamaDee.

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